HealthInfo West Coast-Te Tai Poutini
Finding out you're pregnant can be overwhelming, especially if the pregnancy wasn't planned. You might also feel anxious or worried about telling your parents. Remember, help and support are available.
If you think you might be pregnant, it's important to find out for sure by having a pregnancy test so you can learn about your options and the care and support that's available.
If it's possible, talk to one or both of your parents or another close family/whānau member. However, you may prefer to talk to someone else first. Your GP (doctor) is a good person to start with. If you need to find a general practice team, you can search on the West Coast PHO's website.
Remember, your doctor has to keep all information about your medical care confidential and is a good person to see because they know you best.
You can also talk to a midwife – find one at Find your midwife. Many midwives provide free pregnancy tests and can talk about your options with you.
A negative pregnancy test doesn't always mean you're not pregnant. If you think you are pregnant, but the test is negative, wait a few days before doing another test. If the test is negative, you might want to know more about contraception.
If your pregnancy test is positive, you may feel overwhelmed as you look at the options you need to consider. Remember there is help and support available to you.
You may wish either to keep the baby, or have the baby adopted. If you continue with the pregnancy you should contact a midwife. Midwives are trained health professionals who specialise in pregnancy and childbirth.
You may choose to end the pregnancy by having a termination (abortion).
The most important thing is for you to have someone you can talk to about the different options available, and how you are feeling. See the suggestions above for people you can talk to.
HealthInfo recommends the following pages
Pregnancy Infancy Parenting Support provides free practical support and advice.
This site has video interviews with young people.
Information written especially for young people with information and links to support services. Includes information about pregnancy tests, your choices, getting support and continuing your education.
On the next page: Support for teen parents
Information provided by the Canterbury DHB. Last reviewed January 2021.
Review key: HIPRT-53210